Are You a Turned-On Woman??? by Christiane Northrup, M.D.

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When you start living your life as a totally alive, turned-on woman, an amazing thing happens: Not only does this bring you an amazing amount of pleasure and happiness, but you also start having a positive effect on everyone else around you. In fact, your joyful outlook becomes positively contagious!

The effect is similar to what happens when you’re in a good mood. You’ve probably often seen how your upbeat mood can put a smile on someone else’s face, but the effect I’m talking about here is much deeper and more powerful than just spreading a few smiles.

When you commit to discovering, nurturing and then living your true passion, it’s as if you’re stoking a fire in your soul. Others then see you not only being confident and comfortable in your own skin, but also celebrating yourself and reaching for joy at every turn. As a result, you will inspire them to do the same. So eventually, they, too, begin making healthier choices that nurture their bodies, minds, and spirits.

But that’s just the start. Instead of merely being an example—as powerful as that can be—why not become a source of pleasure for others as well? You’ll quickly see that this takes relatively little effort on your part, and it can be a great deal of fun.

For example, compliment others more often when they do something right. So many of us are used to getting feedback only when we do something wrong or displease someone else. Why not let people know that you appreciate what they’ve done right then and there? Remember the saying “An attitude of gratitude creates a space for grace”—there’s a lot of wisdom in that statement!

The more pleasure you spread to others, the more you will feel yourself, and the more joyous and healthier the world around you will become. This works because of the Law of Attraction, which states that whatever you pay attention to expands. So, by spending time focusing on joy and pleasure, you’re simply calling more of it to you—and to everyone else you come in contact with, as well. In a very short time, you’ll start to see beauty in many forms and opportunities for pleasure and success wherever you go.